If you have been wondering what is wrong with “nice guys,” a young woman on TikTok shared her thoughts.
It is all about the energy
The video captioned “masculine-feminine energy” has thousands of comments, and it is a different take on dating.
The theory of attraction
Emma, a TikTok content creator, started the video, “You are not unattracted to him because he’s the nice guy. You’re unattracted to him because he’s feminine.”
Expanding the revelation
Emma continued, “When I was single, and most of my friends were single, I would hear girls all the time say, ‘he’s just too nice.'” But for Emma, the issue was that the guys were too feminine and passive.
That is naturally not what women want
Emma further said this was unnatural because “there’s no polarity.” She points out that women are not interested in men who are “equally emotional and equally in touch with his feelings at the wrong time.”
A feminine guy shares the same energy as a woman
Emma adds, “A feminine man will always be expressive, always a little too sweet, a little too touchy-feely.”
It makes women feel unsafe
Due to a lack of masculinity, women feel unsafe showing their feminine side, Emma claims. She adds, “If there’s no polarity in a relationship, there’s no polarity in the dynamic, let’s say on your first date,” a woman soon notices that he’s “too nice.”
Masculine women want feminine men
As the TikTok poster said, more masculine women “appreciate” feminine guys because “there’s polarity there.”
Emma’s conclusion
The TikTok poster said, “Stop telling yourself you’re not attracted to the nice guys. You are just finding feminine guys and calling them nice.”
The comments were divided
One person thanked Emma, saying, “This is why women are attracted to bad boys!” Others complained that nice guys have no boundaries.
Others did not like this take
Someone shared how they think there is an idea, but Emma did not express it adequately. Another person said they do not feel “kind and sweet is feminine.”
Emma is engaged to a “masculine, kind man”
Many of her followers found that they, too, like masculine guys. They also agreed that being kind is not feminine, as it all depends on how a guy expresses himself.
Emma’s channel gives interesting relationship advice
Though often somewhat controversial, Emma shared thoughts on body and skin care, beauty, and, yes, relationships. But what do you think about this masculine-feminine polarity in relationships?
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