The woman added that when she was marrying her husband, Seb, the mother-in-law also tried to meddle, but they “refused her money as we wanted to do what we wanted.”
Sister-in-law wanted the woman’s children, aged 12, 9, and 6, to be part of the wedding. Her oldest has knee-length hair, while the other two have waist-length hair.
While the mother-in-law wants “shoulder length” hair, the OP said, “both Seb and I have refused to consent to letting her cut their hair as it’s not something they want.”